The Shaming of Fathers Must Stop #BeDisciplined

Or should we say that it is time we start shaming mothers? This will not help either. Most parents do not understand that Parenting is in the interest of the child and not theirs. Even though Involved Parenting gives you a peace of mind, it is more necessary as the one most important tool that drives your child to a fulfilling future.

Women who deprive their men of participating in their children’s lives are stealing these children’s future. Fathers who refuse to be there for their children are deviating the children’s future.

It is high time men and women stop prioritising emotions, power, money and every other reasons for rejecting each other and focus on raising the innocent child who did not send a note for them to do the act that made the child to be born.

Women behave yourselves and fall pregnant for need of being a parent rather than want for an ATM.

Men use plastic and any other measures that will stop you from running into bushes and hiding your WhatsApp statuses because you wish to be taken as dead … or not available.

Parenting means building a Child’s future. It does not mean live today.





By Victorine Mbong Shu.

For Fathers on this Father’s Month 2019.

Victorine is in education and training since 2002. She is the CEO of Profounder Intelligence Management Services, a Peak Performance Authority Coach, a Publisher, Editor, Researcher, Transformational Speaker, Mentor, Material Developer, Facilitator, Assessor, Moderator and TV Talk Show Host at Children Television South Africa (CTVSA). She is the owner of Profound Conference Centre in Bramley-JHB. She and Dr. Fru are raising 4 bubbly children, including Africa’s youngest multiple award-winning author of chapter books, Stacey Fru. Victorine is a respectable Involved Parenting Conversationalist with a Master’s Degree in Communications. She is a BrandSA Ambassador and Awards Winning Author of the following books:

  • ‘Stop Complaining! and Bring Back Involved Parenting, 2016’
  • ‘Trapped in our shadows, 2017’
  • ‘Proven habits for financial freedom, 2018’
  • ‘S’EX, 2018’
  • ‘Not too late: Bring Back Involved Parenting, 2019’



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